Choose What You Want In Life!

"You don't have to buy from anyone. You don't have to
work at any particular job.
You don't have to participate in any given relationship. You
can choose."
-- Harry Browne
Choice. It's all about freedom--the freedom
to pick one thing over another. Are you choosing what you
want from life?
"Oh no," comes the reply. "I
can't because... I haven't got enough education. ...I need
to look after my family. ...I don't have enough money. ...I
don't have the time." What's your excuse?
The truth is that we have choice in every
single moment of our lives. For those who are destitute, the
choices in life are fewer. But the rest of us often think
we don't have freedom when we simply haven't claimed our power
to choose differently.
How do you typically make decisions? Do you
do so based on:
"shoulds" - doing what you believe
you should do.
pleasing others - doing what others want or expect you to
do.
fear - choosing the safe route for fear of doing something
different.
habit and reaction - you don't even think about what you're
doing--you've always done it this way?
On the other hand, you own your power to choose
when you decide on the basis of:
desire - choosing something you want
need - responding to deeper desires
authenticity - you know who you are and what you stand for
creative expression - you strive to be more.
So how can you open to choosing differently?
Be clear about what you want. Have a sense
of purpose. With a target to aim for, you'll know what will
serve you best.
STOP and ASK yourself questions. "Why
am I doing this? What do I want to achieve?" WRITE down
your answers. Be more conscious of how you are spending your
precious time, because this is your life passing by. This
will help you say, "Wait! I don't want to do this anymore!"
Never allow yourself to play the victim. Victims
have given away their power. You alone are responsible for
your life. When you fully accept this, you will claim your
inner power to make better choices. Change often comes from
nothing more than a shift in perspective.
Be open to possibilities for yourself. Select
one area of your life where you are unsatisfied, and choose
something new, something more for yourself. Do different things
and do things differently. Risk more.
Empowerment arises from the three Cs: choice,
courage and change. They are yours to claim. You'll be astounded
at how easy it will be to take charge once you've made up
your mind to do so. You have the opportunity to create a future
that's very different from your past. And remember: not choosing
is also a choice.
"It is always your next move."
-- Napoleon Hill
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